Archive - January 1, 2016 to December 31, 2016
World Breastfeeding Week: Hope & Frustration
August 7, 2016author: Jeanette Mesite Frem
It was World Breastfeeding Week last week.
World Breastfeeding Week was created to encourage global organizations and community organizations work together to improve sustainable development through the protection, promotion and support of breastfeeding. I meant to post something last week but got busy helping babies with breastfeeding and watching and reading of all...
read more…Nurturing for Those with a New Baby
July 24, 2016author: Jeanette Mesite Frem
Congratulations on the arrival of your new child! As a new parent, your body, heart and mind are undergoing changes. If you gave birth to a baby, your body just grew a human and is now healing after releasing the baby and placenta. For any parent, your heart is growing as you get to know your new child. Your mind is changing with your new sleep rhythms, new role, new...
read more…Dad vs. Nurse: Advocacy in the Labor Room (part two)
April 4, 2016GUEST POST by Melissa DuBois
If you haven’t already, please read DAD VS NURSE: Advocacy in the labor room, Part 1
In part 1 of this blog, I discussed factors that influence the relationship between a partner (especially a male partner) and a labor nurse. I also discussed why some approaches and gender dynamics can create a defensive and adversarial relationship between dad and nurse when a dad...
read more…Dad vs. Nurse: Advocacy in the Labor Room (part one)
April 4, 2016GUEST POST by Melissa DuBois
Jeanette Mesite Frem, owner/director and executive momma of Babies in Common (BinC) recently posed a question to a group of current and former labor & delivery nurse friends (me included). The question was: How can partners (especially male partners) best interact with a labor nurse when advocating for the laboring mother’s birth plan without causing the nurse to get...
read more…"Natural" is Now a Bad Word, says AAP Journal Article
March 31, 2016How to be the perfect parent: Let go of any notion of being perfect.
March 19, 2016
In those first few years of parenting, I focused my energy on being the best parent that I could be. I set high expectations for myself and for others. I worked hard to create a safe and engaging environment that would help my kids to flourish. I provided social opportunities and activities to enhance their experiences. I read Dr. Sears and Dr. Brazelton. I...
The Art of Self-Care
January 20, 2016GUEST POST by Jessica Curtis
In the first few years of parenthood, I made the mistake of equating who I was with the roles I played: mother, spouse, household manager. I worked hard to be the best mom and the best partner that I could. And how did I measure my success? I measured my success (read: worth) by how happy my family was, by how well I was meeting their needs.
I was putting one foot...
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